"It's not about the change itself, but about who we become in the process." In any kind of change, be it: 🔸 Career transitions 🔸 Technology adoption 🔸 Business growth or scaling 🔸 Relationships, including parenting We often measure success by outcomes, such as: 🔸 Landing the desired job 🔸 Meeting business targets 🔸 Fulfilling roles in relationships 🔸 Implementing new technologies This is all important and this is how change looks from the outside. But 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴,

After reading my recent blog post "FORGET to GET" (link in comments), a friend said - "Good thought, but how to forget"? "Good question"! I said 😃😅 𝑨 𝑭𝒖𝒍𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒂 𝑷𝒓𝒐𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒆- 𝑵𝒖𝒈𝒈𝒆𝒕 3 Yes it's easier said than done to say 'divert your thoughts from petty matters to more meaningful stuff'. Negative thoughts can be very sticky. We are wired to focus more on negative than positive. For instance, you have given a great presentati

#lazysunday #story: Almost a year ago, a neighbour gifted me her orchid plant 🪴⚘as she was leaving the country. She said, "It has never bloomed before, so feel free to discard if it doesn't in your hands as well". The plant got watered and nourished just as other plants in our little garden, but neither did it grow, nor did it bloom! 🙃 Is it ever going to bloom? Should we keep or should we not? 🤔 In the hustle and bustle of life, we gave up 🤷‍♀️! ............. ..........

A communication lesson from dad on emotions and composure My father is one of those genuinely happy people, open, deeply caring, endlessly thoughtful about others. If I have an emotional core, which I do, it came from him. We are told that men are tough. They don't cry. They are the steady, unshakeable presence in the family. Yes, there is some truth in it. But what I learned from watching my dad is that the toughness is often at the surface. Underneath, fathers have a heart